Like a lot of clients, Miss K arrived with a mix of excitement and nerves.
Very normal. Extremely allowed.
We started with hair and makeup, which gave her time to settle into the studio before we started shooting. No rushing or immediately throwing her in front of a camera. Just time to talk, get comfortable, and let the “what am I doing?” part calm down a little.
By the time we finished, she told me, “You made me feel like we could be really close friends.”
Which is basically the best compliment because that is exactly how I want this to feel. Not stiff. Not intimidating. Not like you walked into a room where you’re expected to know what you’re doing.
More like, “Okay, I can breathe. I’m safe here.”
One of Miss K’s favorite parts of her session was getting to explore pieces from the client closet. She already loved lingerie, but like a lot of people, she did not always know what would actually work for her body or photograph well.
She said, “I love lingerie. I just never know what looks good on me, so trying on different things helped me explore new pieces.”
That is exactly why the client closet exists. Not so you have to become a lingerie expert overnight. Not so you have to panic-buy 14 things online and pray one of them fits.
It gives us room to play, experiment, and find pieces that feel good on your actual body, not the imaginary version of your body that online sizing charts seem to think exists.
Miss K shared that she had never really considered herself photogenic.
Which, respectfully, is something so many clients say before they see their images. Most people are not bad in photos. They just have not been photographed with posing, lighting, direction, and care.
During her session, Miss K got to see herself in a way she had not expected.
In her words:
“I just didn’t know I could look like that. It also helped me fall in love with my body again just as it is.”
And that is the part that matters, seeing yourself with a little more softness, a little more awe, and maybe a tiny bit of “holy shit, that’s me.”
By the end of her session, Miss K said she felt “on an extreme high” and “on top of the world.”
That does not happen because boudoir magically fixes everything. I will never sell it that way. But sometimes being photographed with care gives you a different kind of proof.
Proof that you can do something scary.
Proof that nerves do not mean you are not ready.
Proof that your body does not have to change before it is worth documenting.
Proof that maybe you have been seeing yourself through a harsher lens than you deserve.
And for Miss K, that shift stayed with her.
Here’s what Miss K had to say about her boudoir experience:
“Arielle is phenomenal in every way! I was nervous at first, but having my hair and makeup done with her helped so much. We talked the entire time, and by the end of it, I felt completely comfortable. My nerves were gone. Her work will make you say, ‘Holy crap, I didn’t know I could look like that!’ and not just once, but over and over again! Every woman deserves to experience this at least once in her life. I would do it again in a heartbeat, and most likely will! Thank you, Arielle, for this amazing experience!”
Miss K summed it up best herself:
“You’re fantastic, you changed my life!”
PS. That last part made me super cry.
You do not have to show up already confident.
You do not have to know what to wear.
You do not have to believe you are photogenic.
Miss K did not walk in with everything perfectly figured out either. She showed up nervous, tried something new, let herself be guided, and left with images that changed the way she saw herself.
That is the whole point.
Session prep tip:
Drink some water in the days leading up to your session.
Not because I`m about to give you some weird wellness lecture.
Because you`re going to bending like a pretzel.
You`ll feel better the next day after if you`re hydrated.
Read more on how to prepare: https://arothboudoir.com/10TipsToPrepareForYourShoot
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Jun 27
What`s everyone doing this weekend?
Or are we all collectively staying home and avoiding responsibilities? 🤷♀️
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Jun 25
Something I`ve heard from a few people lately:
"I`m interested, but I`m really nervous."
And listen, I`d be more surprised if you weren`t.
Most clients walk through the studio door nervous.
That`s completely normal.
Read about the psychology of boudoir: https://arothboudoir.com/PsychologyBoudoir
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Jun 24
Just out here doing important work. 😏
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Jun 23
Respectfully, MAM. 😍🔥
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Jun 22
It`s been one whole year since coming to the new studio (peep the selfie from my first session here), and it still feels a bit like a pinch me moment when I come in. Sometimes it`s crazy to reflect on a years growth because it`s a lot of time while simultaneously being no time at all.
I generally am someone who will do things on a whim with the belief it`ll work out, and deciding to take a chance by saying yes has continued to still be a pretty rad decision.
Thanks for being here. 💕
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Jun 21
Respectfully babe, book the damn session. 😘
Schedule it here: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirSchedule
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Jun 20
A common misconception about boudoir?
That you need to know what you`re doing. You don`t.
In fact, most people have never done anything like this before.
That`s literally why I`m there.
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Jun 18
The most important day of the week has arrived. 🍑😈
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Jun 18
The giant windows everyone comments on when they walk into the studio?
They`re basically my favorite employees.
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Jun 17
What`s something you`re looking forward to right now?
Big or small, drop it in the comments!
And listen babe, being excited about a coffee order is completely valid. ☕️
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Jun 15
My VIP Group is one of my favorite corners of the internet.
If you`re thinking about booking, curious about boudoir, or just want to hang out with some pretty awesome ladies, we`d love to have you. ❤️
Join here: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirVIP
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Jun 14
Not gonna lie...the Wet Skin add-on never gets old. 😍
See all my session add-ons: https://arothboudoir.com/SessionAddOns
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Jun 13
Are you choosing color or black & white?
Choose wisely. 😉
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Jun 11
Friendly reminder: You do not need to go buy a whole new wardrobe for your boudoir session.
My client closet is included in all my packages and is filled with over 400 pieces from XS-5XL.
So if outfit shopping is stressing you out, take a deep breath babe. I`ve got you.
Explore the client closet: https://bit.ly/ARClientCloset
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Jun 10
I don`t make the rules. It`s Tushy Tuesday.
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Jun 9
DYK: you can book your session up to 12 months in advance AND I offer payment plans.
Which means more time to plan, more time to pay, and a lot less last-minute stress.
See my payment plan options: https://arothboudoir.com/PaymentPlans
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Jun 8
It`s been a while since I`ve done this and there`s lots of new, beautiful faces. So, hey. I`m Arielle, your personal hype girl and I`m so happy you`re here!
Let`s get down to some fun facts:
-I`ve been shooting for around 10 years in commercial, weddings, and lifestyle. Ya girl loves boudoir though.
-I also own a marketing agency and specialize in web design.
- I shoot in my bra and underwear so you aren`t the only one half naked during your session.
- I`m five years sober, crazy!
- I`m slightly (a lot) obsessed with my cats, a good book, and bubble baths.
-I collect PEZ containers.
- I`ve hiked around 50 places solo around Michigan.
-I`m severely ADHD and type B, I will misplace things minimum 100 times during a session.
- I`m beyond thankful for every client who trusts me with this experience.
- My print supplier is 100% women ran and owned, and all their products are handmade.
Have any questions for me? Drop them in the comments!
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Jun 7
I am once again asking for TV recommendations.
What show are you currently obsessed with?
Bonus points if you answer Euphoria so we can talk about the season finale together.
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Jun 6
FAQ: Can I keep my photos private?
A: Yes. Your privacy is always respected. I only share images with written permission, and you’ll choose your privacy level after your reveal.
Learn more about my sessions, www.ariellerothboudoir.com
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Jun 3
I believe in helping women celebrating their figures, finding your confidence, and being part of you filling your want to simply feel beautiful and relish in it.
I believe in helping women celebrating their figures, finding your confidence, and being part of you filling your want to simply feel beautiful and relish in it.