Like a lot of clients, Miss K arrived with a mix of excitement and nerves.
Very normal. Extremely allowed.
We started with hair and makeup, which gave her time to settle into the studio before we started shooting. No rushing or immediately throwing her in front of a camera. Just time to talk, get comfortable, and let the “what am I doing?” part calm down a little.
By the time we finished, she told me, “You made me feel like we could be really close friends.”
Which is basically the best compliment because that is exactly how I want this to feel. Not stiff. Not intimidating. Not like you walked into a room where you’re expected to know what you’re doing.
More like, “Okay, I can breathe. I’m safe here.”
One of Miss K’s favorite parts of her session was getting to explore pieces from the client closet. She already loved lingerie, but like a lot of people, she did not always know what would actually work for her body or photograph well.
She said, “I love lingerie. I just never know what looks good on me, so trying on different things helped me explore new pieces.”
That is exactly why the client closet exists. Not so you have to become a lingerie expert overnight. Not so you have to panic-buy 14 things online and pray one of them fits.
It gives us room to play, experiment, and find pieces that feel good on your actual body, not the imaginary version of your body that online sizing charts seem to think exists.
Miss K shared that she had never really considered herself photogenic.
Which, respectfully, is something so many clients say before they see their images. Most people are not bad in photos. They just have not been photographed with posing, lighting, direction, and care.
During her session, Miss K got to see herself in a way she had not expected.
In her words:
“I just didn’t know I could look like that. It also helped me fall in love with my body again just as it is.”
And that is the part that matters, seeing yourself with a little more softness, a little more awe, and maybe a tiny bit of “holy shit, that’s me.”
By the end of her session, Miss K said she felt “on an extreme high” and “on top of the world.”
That does not happen because boudoir magically fixes everything. I will never sell it that way. But sometimes being photographed with care gives you a different kind of proof.
Proof that you can do something scary.
Proof that nerves do not mean you are not ready.
Proof that your body does not have to change before it is worth documenting.
Proof that maybe you have been seeing yourself through a harsher lens than you deserve.
And for Miss K, that shift stayed with her.
Here’s what Miss K had to say about her boudoir experience:
“Arielle is phenomenal in every way! I was nervous at first, but having my hair and makeup done with her helped so much. We talked the entire time, and by the end of it, I felt completely comfortable. My nerves were gone. Her work will make you say, ‘Holy crap, I didn’t know I could look like that!’ and not just once, but over and over again! Every woman deserves to experience this at least once in her life. I would do it again in a heartbeat, and most likely will! Thank you, Arielle, for this amazing experience!”
Miss K summed it up best herself:
“You’re fantastic, you changed my life!”
PS. That last part made me super cry.
You do not have to show up already confident.
You do not have to know what to wear.
You do not have to believe you are photogenic.
Miss K did not walk in with everything perfectly figured out either. She showed up nervous, tried something new, let herself be guided, and left with images that changed the way she saw herself.
That is the whole point.
Boudoir isn’t about showing up already confident, perfectly posed, or magically comfortable in front of a camera.
Most clients walk into their session nervous, that’s completely normal. My job is to help you settle in, guide you through every pose, and create images that feel like you, not some overly edited version of you that looks like she has never had a pore, stretch mark, or life experience.
I photograph real bodies with intention, care, and a whole lot of direction. Every image is hand-edited individually with the goal of enhancing the photo, not changing you into a different person.
Wherever you are coming from, your session is designed to feel comfortable, personal, and actually doable.
Learn more about my boudoir experience: www.ariellerothboudoir.com
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Jul 15
The prettiest view in Detroit.
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Jul 15
And just like that, it’s Tuesday again. 🍑
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Jul 14
After taking July off from mini sessions, I’m back to @niceandnaughtystores in Saginaw on August 16th with Red Room Mini Sessions.
My email list will get you first dibs on booking your spot tomorrow and it’ll open up to everyone this Thursday.
Sign up at the link below.
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Jul 13
She’s giving iconic.
Model: @tall_like_tess
Agency: @beauty.inme_
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Jul 13
What’s one thing that makes you feel confident?
I’ll go first, having my nails and lashes done. I instantly feel more put together even if I haven’t done anything else with myself that day.
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Jul 12
Cue “What Dreams Are Made Of” by Hilary Duff.
Model: @alanna.osuna
Agency: @beauty.inme_
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Jul 12
The fellas deserve their main character moment too.
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Jul 9
Your weekly reminder that butts are kinda my thing. 🍑
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Jul 7
One of my favorite things about offering payment plans?
It means you don’t have to choose between booking now and waiting until everything feels “perfect.”
All my packages are eligible for a custom payment plan that works with your budget and timeline.
See my different options here: https://arothboudoir.com/PaymentPlans
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Jul 6
Happy Tushy Tuesday, Babes 🍑
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Jun 30
"From the moment I walked in, I felt so comfortable, confident, and completely at ease. Arielle created such a welcoming and empowering environment that made the entire shoot feel natural and fun. I was honestly nervous beforehand, but she hyped me up the whole time and made me feel beautiful in every pose.
The photos turned out absolutely incredible and exceeded all my expectations. If you’re thinking about booking a boudoir session, do it. You will leave feeling so confident and empowered. Highly recommend!"
www.ariellerothboudoir.com
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Jun 29
If you`re not on my email list yet, now`s a good time to fix that.
It`s one of the best ways to make sure you don`t miss sales, studio updates, model calls, openings, and all the fun stuff.
💌 Subscribe here: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirNewsletter
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Jun 28
Proof that you’re that girl.
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Jun 27
Session prep tip:
Drink some water in the days leading up to your session.
Not because I`m about to give you some weird wellness lecture.
Because you`re going to bending like a pretzel.
You`ll feel better the next day after if you`re hydrated.
Read more on how to prepare: https://arothboudoir.com/10TipsToPrepareForYourShoot
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Jun 27
What`s everyone doing this weekend?
Or are we all collectively staying home and avoiding responsibilities? 🤷♀️
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Jun 25
Something I`ve heard from a few people lately:
"I`m interested, but I`m really nervous."
And listen, I`d be more surprised if you weren`t.
Most clients walk through the studio door nervous.
That`s completely normal.
Read about the psychology of boudoir: https://arothboudoir.com/PsychologyBoudoir
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Jun 24
Just out here doing important work. 😏
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Jun 23
Respectfully, MAM. 😍🔥
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Jun 22
It`s been one whole year since coming to the new studio (peep the selfie from my first session here), and it still feels a bit like a pinch me moment when I come in. Sometimes it`s crazy to reflect on a years growth because it`s a lot of time while simultaneously being no time at all.
I generally am someone who will do things on a whim with the belief it`ll work out, and deciding to take a chance by saying yes has continued to still be a pretty rad decision.
Thanks for being here. 💕
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Jun 21
I believe in helping women celebrating their figures, finding your confidence, and being part of you filling your want to simply feel beautiful and relish in it.
I believe in helping women celebrating their figures, finding your confidence, and being part of you filling your want to simply feel beautiful and relish in it.