What To Wear: Outfits, Lingerie, and Accessories, oh my!
Hey babe! So, you’ve booked your boudoir session and now you’re staring at your closet like it’s a Rubik’s cube. Don’t worry, we’ve all been there. Let’s dive into the delicious world of boudoir fashion and figure out what to wear to make you feel like the stunning, confident goddess you are.
Spoiler alert: You’re going to look amazing.
1. Lingerie: The Obvious Choice (But Make it You)
Let’s start with the classic – lingerie. Boudoir and lingerie go together like champagne and strawberries. But here’s the thing: this is not about what looks good on the hanger. It’s about what makes you feel unstoppable. That means the scratchy lace impulse-buy that doesn’t even fit? Hard pass.
Instead, look for materials that feel luxe: lace, silk, mesh, satin, or ribbed cotton. Whether it’s ultra-feminine with bows and frills or a minimalist set with clean lines, your lingerie should be an extension of your vibe.
Pro tip: If it rides up, digs in, or makes you fidget – it’s not the one.
2. Your Favorite Bra and Panty Set
Every woman has that one set that makes her feel like she owns the damn world. You know the one. Maybe it’s your red lace set. Maybe it’s a simple black duo that hugs all the right places. Either way – bring it.
A matching bra and panty set creates a polished, sexy, and cohesive look. Bonus points if the bra is wireless or has a flattering plunge neckline. I recommend trying them on a few days before your session to ensure the fit still feels good (because bodies fluctuate, and that’s normal AF).
3. The Bodysuit: Your Boudoir BFF
Bodysuits are the unsung heroes of the boudoir world. Think about it – they hug your curves, provide structure, and can be styled in a million ways. Plus, they photograph like a dream.
Choose a bodysuit if:
You want to feel secure but sexy.
You love the idea of a one-piece outfit.
You’re into modern or edgy vibes.
Lace and mesh add softness. Strappy details, high-cut sides, or plunging necklines add spice. Bonus? They elongate the torso, giving that goddess energy in every pose.
4. Silky Robes and Kimonos
There’s just something about a silky robe slipping off the shoulder that screams understated sex appeal. Robes and kimonos are perfect for those “between” moments – like sipping your drink, lounging on the bed, or playfully peeking at the camera.
Opt for long, flowy robes if you want elegance, or go with a short robe for a flirtier feel. Floral prints, metallic sheens, and even sheer fabrics can all bring a beautiful layering effect to your gallery.
Tip: Robes also double as a great modesty piece if you’re easing into the shoot and need a little warm-up.
5. Oversized Sweaters: Cozy Meets Captivating
Yep, your Sunday lounge sweater just got sexy. There’s something irresistible about the combination of cozy and sultry. Think: off-the-shoulder, slightly slouchy, paired with cheeky underwear or nothing at all.
Sweaters work best in neutral tones or soft colors that complement your skin tone. Think beige, ivory, gray, blush, or even deep jewel tones if you’re leaning into moody vibes.
Pro Styling: Pair an oversized sweater with thigh-high socks, tousled hair, and minimal makeup for a sensual, “I woke up like this” vibe.
6. Something Personal and Sentimental
This is where the magic happens. Maybe it’s your partner’s favorite T-shirt. Maybe it’s a necklace from your grandmother. Maybe it’s your sobriety necklace or your favorite hoodie that got you through hard days. Whatever it is, bring it.
Personal touches make your session feel like you. It’s a way to infuse meaning into the images beyond the sexy, which is what boudoir is truly about – empowerment, vulnerability, and storytelling.
7. Statement Accessories (That Don’t Steal the Show)
Accessories are like seasoning: a little goes a long way. Consider:
A delicate gold necklace
A bold red lip
A wide-brim hat
Leather cuffs or chains for kink-friendly shoots
A veil or bridal accessories
The key is to enhance your look, not distract from it. Bring options but don’t stress about wearing them all. We’ll pick what complements the set and vibe you’ve chosen.
8. Heels That Make You Feel Like a Queen
Heels are a power move. Whether it’s black patent stilettos, velvet platforms, thigh-high boots, or classic nude pumps – they change the entire feel of your body in photos.
They:
Improve posture
Elongate the legs
Add sass and edge
Not comfortable in heels? Bring them for a few shots while seated or lying down. Or skip them altogether and go barefoot – it’s your call.
9. Casual Pieces With a Twist
Boudoir doesn’t have to mean lingerie. Some of the most captivating images come from casual, everyday pieces styled with intention.
Ideas:
Unbuttoned jeans with no top
Cropped T-shirt and undies
Button-down shirt tied at the waist
Tank top pulled just slightly off one shoulder
These relaxed pieces can feel more “you” than traditional lingerie, especially if you’re not typically the lacy-thong type. And they’re proof that sexy doesn’t have to mean over-the-top.
10. The Birthday Suit (If You’re Feeling Bold)
Let’s talk about au naturel. Tasteful nudes can be some of the most breathtaking and empowering images you’ll ever take. It’s not about being naked for shock value – it’s about being raw, real, and gloriously yourself.
Your comfort is always the priority, so we’ll plan your session flow to include nudes only if you feel ready. Lighting, posing, and editing all play a part in making these shots elegant and artistic.
11. Pro Tips From My Studio Experience
After photographing hundreds of women in my Bay City boudoir studio, I’ve learned a few universal truths when it comes to choosing what to wear:
Fit is everything. Don’t force yourself into a set that doesn’t fit well. Confidence starts with comfort.
Bring 4 – 6 outfit options. We may not use them all, but having choices lets us tailor the shoot to your mood and flow.
Layer when in doubt. A robe over a bodysuit, a sweater over lingerie – layering allows you to ease in and get a variety of looks.
Don’t overthink it. What you bring is just one part of the experience. Your energy, your story, and your confidence matter most.
12. What About Hair and Makeup?
Good news: my Glow Up and Luxe AF packages include professional hair and makeup right here in the studio! Whether you want glam, natural, or retro bombshell, I’ve got you.
13. Client Closet Access (Yes, You Can Borrow From Me!)
Still unsure what to bring? I’ve got you, babe. My Client Closet has over 350 pieces of lingerie, robes, and bodysuits in a full range of sizes. You’ll be able to try on styles before the shoot and find something that feels absolutely right.
14. Outfits by Theme: Some Extra Inspiration
| Vibe | Outfit Ideas |
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Romantic |
Blush lace bralette, floral robe, soft waves
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Edgy |
Strappy black bodysuit, harness, boots
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Casual |
Oversized sweater, knee-high socks, bun
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Bridal |
White lace set, veil, garter belt
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Empowered |
Nothing but heels and confidence
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15. Let’s Recap: Your Boudoir Outfit Checklist
- At least one lingerie set you love
- One bodysuit
- A cozy oversized sweater
- A silky robe or kimono
- Your favorite pair of heels
- A casual outfit with a sexy twist
- Statement accessory or sentimental piece
- Optional nude look if you’re feeling bold
- A few backups – just in case your vibe changes
Ready to Make Magic?
You don’t need a “perfect” body or perfect outfit to book a boudoir session. You just need the desire to celebrate you. Whether you come in your most glamorous lingerie or your coziest sweater, you’ll leave with photos that reflect your strength, sensuality, and self-love.
