What Really Happens at a Boudoir Session (Start to Finish!)
So…you’ve been thinking about doing a boudoir session.
You’ve probably sat with the idea, maybe peeked through my portfolio, maybe even gotten that fluttery feeling in your stomach when you picture yourself doing the damn thing. And then you stop yourself with the biggest question of all:
“Okay, but what actually happens at a boudoir session?”
Let me walk you through the entire process – start to finish – so there are no surprises, just empowerment.
Step 1: The Inquiry
Your journey starts with a message – an inquiry form, a DM, an email. However you reach out, you’re met with warmth, zero pressure, and lots of good vibes. Once I get your message, I’ll respond with my full session guide that includes:
Package details (all include digitals, yes babe!)
Pricing and payment plan options
Studio add-ons (angel wings, honey, kink, wet skin, etc.)
Hair and makeup info
FAQs and what to expect
We’ll chat back and forth to make sure you feel fully informed. You are never just a booking to me – this is a sacred experience, and I want you to feel supported from day one.
Step 2: Booking + Planning
Once you’re ready to lock in your session, you’ll sign your contract and pay your retainer to secure your date. Payment plans are available (because accessibility matters), and you can start with just a deposit.
Then the fun begins:
We’ll start planning your shoot vision: are you feeling soft and romantic? Moody and sultry? A little kinky?
You’ll get access to my 300+ piece client closet (sizes XS–5X, lingerie, bodysuits, robes, heels, jewelry, and more).
I’ll walk you through how to prep, what to bring, how to tan (or not), what nails look good in photos, etc.
You’ll also get an invite for a try-on appointment if you’re local, so you can explore the closet before your shoot!
Step 3: The Morning of the Session
Nervous? Totally normal. Excited? Hell yes.
You’ll arrive at my private Bay City studio, and we’ll start with hair and makeup…with me! I specialize in soft glam that photographs stunningly – no heavy filters or cakey looks here. Need a wedding makeup artist? I know a girl. 😉
While you’re in the glam chair, we chat. We laugh. We talk about your nerves. And we breathe.
The goal? Ease you in so that by the time we’re ready to shoot, your nerves have melted and you feel like you’re just hanging out with your hype woman. Because…you are.
Step 4: The Shoot
Time to strip off the nerves and step into your power.
We’ll move at your pace. I guide you through every single pose, including your hands, chin, legs, facial expressions, breathing – even your damn toes. You don’t need to know what you’re doing. I got you.
Some shots will be playful. Some will be soft and sensual. Some will make you say, “Damn, that’s ME?”
You’ll likely wear 3–5 outfits (3 is my recommended sweet spot), including optional nude sets if you choose. If you’ve added on a feature (like honey, wet skin, or kink), we’ll save that for the end so you can go all in. I’ll check in with you constantly, adjusting if something doesn’t feel right.
You are never pushed beyond your comfort zone. Consent and communication guide every second.
Step 5: After the Session
You’re glowing. Euphoric. Energized. Maybe a little weepy in the best way. You did something powerful, bold, beautiful. You’ll walk out of the studio taller than you walked in.
And then… the wait.
Behind the scenes, I go through every image – flagging the best ones that showcase you, your energy, and your transformation, sending you a sneak peek within 48 hours.
Step 6: The Reveal + Gallery Delivery
Two to three weeks later, you’ll come back to review your fully edited, high-resolution gallery and to select your final images. Every package includes digitals, and you’ll have the option to purchase albums, prints, or wall art (which I design with you).
This isn’t about selling you something. It’s about honoring the work you did and giving you a tangible way to celebrate it.
Some clients say they revisit their gallery every time they need a reminder of their strength. Some gift it to a partner. Some make it a private ritual just for themselves.
Whatever you choose – it’s yours. Your story. Your body. Your reclamation.
What You Don’t See (But Feel)
What really happens at a boudoir session?
Healing. Liberation. Pride. Power.
You might cry. You might laugh. You might fall in love with your reflection for the first time in years.
It’s more than lingerie and lights – it’s a mirror held up to your soul, reflecting back the fire that’s always been inside you.
And I’m just here to show you it’s there.
Frequently Asked Questions (In Case You’re Still Nervous)
What if I don’t know how to pose?
You don’t need to. I coach every inch of your body. It’s literally my job.
What if I’m not confident enough yet?
Then this is especially for you. Confidence doesn’t come first—it happens during.
Do I have to be naked?
Nope. Boudoir is about what feels good to you. Some clients do full nude, some never take off their bodysuit.
What about retouching?
My editing style is true-to-you. I remove blemishes and bruises, but I do not reshape bodies. You’re beautiful as-is.
Can I bring a friend?
For try-ons, yes. For your session, it depends. I want the energy to be safe and fully centered on you.
Do you shoot LGBTQ+ clients, people with disabilities, or all body types?
Yes. Always. My studio is a safe, inclusive space. You are seen, valued, and celebrated here.
Ready?
You don’t have to be ready. You just have to be willing.
To show up. To be witnessed. To let yourself be seen through a new lens.
And babe? I promise – what you see might just change how you feel about yourself forever.
Let’s do this.
Inquire now or shoot me an email!
