The start of a new year brings with it a sense of renewal and possibility. It’s a perfect time to reflect, set intentions, and take steps toward becoming the most confident and empowered version of yourself. Whether you’re looking to boost your self-esteem, embrace your unique beauty, or simply take charge of your life, these five tips will help you start the year off on the right foot.
Self-love isn’t just a buzzword; it’s the foundation of true confidence. When you treat yourself with kindness and prioritize your well-being, you’re better equipped to handle life’s challenges. Here’s how to incorporate self-love into your daily routine:
Practice Positive Affirmations: Start your mornings by looking in the mirror and speaking words of affirmation. Say things like, “I am worthy,” “I am beautiful,” and “I am enough.”
Set Healthy Boundaries: Learn to say no to things that drain your energy and yes to what aligns with your values.
Celebrate Your Wins: No matter how small, acknowledge your achievements and give yourself credit where it’s due.
Self-love is a journey, not a destination, so be patient with yourself as you
Few experiences are as empowering as a boudoir photoshoot. It’s an opportunity to celebrate your body, embrace your femininity, and see yourself in a new light. Here’s why you should consider it:
Boost Your Confidence: Seeing yourself through the lens of a professional photographer can remind you of your beauty and strength.
Embrace Your Unique Beauty: Boudoir photography celebrates all body types and encourages you to love yourself as you are.
Create Lasting Memories: These photos serve as a powerful reminder of your journey to self-love and empowerment.
If you’re nervous about the experience, remember that a good boudoir photographer will guide you every step of the way, creating a safe and supportive environment.
Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential. Taking time to recharge and nurture yourself can improve your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Here are some ways to make self-care a priority:
Create a Routine: Dedicate time each week to activities that bring you joy, such as reading, journaling, or taking a long bath.
Move Your Body: Exercise releases endorphins and helps you feel strong and confident. Choose activities you enjoy, whether it’s yoga, dancing, or hiking.
Nourish Your Body: Fuel yourself with nutritious foods that make you feel energized and vibrant.
When you take care of yourself, you’re better equipped to show up as your best self in all areas of your life.
Goal-setting is a powerful way to take control of your life and create a sense of purpose. To set goals that truly empower you:
Focus on What Matters: Identify goals that align with your values and passions.
Make Them SMART: Ensure your goals are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.
Break Them Down: Divide big goals into smaller, manageable steps to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
For example, if your goal is to feel more confident, start by scheduling activities that challenge your comfort zone, such as attending a new class or joining a community group.
The people and environments you surround yourself with have a significant impact on your confidence and mindset. To cultivate positivity in your life:
Choose Supportive Relationships: Spend time with people who uplift and inspire you.
Declutter Your Space: A clean and organized environment can help reduce stress and increase focus.
Consume Positive Content: Follow social media accounts, podcasts, and books that encourage self-growth and empowerment.
When you fill your life with positivity, you create a strong foundation for confidence and success.
Starting the year feeling confident and empowered is about embracing who you are and taking intentional steps toward self-love and self-care. Whether you’re practicing daily affirmations, investing in a boudoir photoshoot, or surrounding yourself with positivity, remember that confidence comes from within. This is your year to shine, so take the leap and prioritize your happiness and well-being. You deserve it!
Want to start your confidence journey with a boudoir session? Contact me today to learn more about creating an empowering experience just for you.
I am excited to share that my piece “Gilded,” will be part of Under the Femme Gaze: Perspectives on Body, Power, and Self-Representation this upcoming weekend on the 13th and 14th at @thevoyeurbordello in Detroit. Which is extra special because the 13th is also my five years sober and what a really fucking rad way to celebrate that.
The exhibit is comprised of femme and female-identifying artists that are examining how we see ourselves and challenging societal beauty standards, gender norms, and power structure (if you’ve shot with me, you know these are all topics we are discussing all session).
The show is being done in partnership with @hydrafund, a grass roots mutual aid fund supporting abortion access in Michigan. All donations made at the door ($5 recommended) and 50% of all sales will go directly to support their organization.
Flyer Design: @claudiachaos
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Mar 10
If you’re feeling personally attacked by daylight savings today…just remember that messy hair, coffee, and staying in bed are a solid plan for the day.
Which are basically all what a boudoir session is, schedule yours here: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirSchedule
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Mar 9
To celebrate International Women’s Day, I’m going to do a flash giveaway over on Facebook that will close at midnight tonight on a Glow Up Package session. Winner will be announced tomorrow. Details on how to enter first and then details on what’s included.
Enter by:
- You must be following my page
- You must be 18 or older to enter
- Session will be done in my Bay City studio
- Love this post for 1 entry
- Share this post for 1 entry
- Earn an entry for every friend you tag in the comments
- Earn an entry for every friend you invite to follow page
- Earn an entry by joining my women’s only VIP group: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirVIP
- Earn an entry by signing up for my email list: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirNewsletter
- Earn an entry by following me on Instagram: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirInsta
And then details on what all is included:
Up to 2 hours of camera time (sessions are 7-8 hours from start to finish)
Hair & makeup application at the studio (fake lashes included)
Standard Boudoir Room Setup
10 fully retouched digital images (color + black & white)
Mobile Gallery App
Access to 400+ piece client lingerie closet (XS–5XL)
Posing guidance & coaching
Same Day Reveal & Ordering Appointment
Two Week Digital Gallery Delivery Time
Post-Session Care Package
Optional Add-Ons Available (like angel wings, kink, wet skin sets)
No minimum spend after session
Print Release
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Mar 8
International Women’s Day always makes me stop for a second. Not because women only deserve recognition one day a year. We don’t, we deserve it everyday. As Beyonce said, we run the world.
But because it’s a reminder of how much power women hold when we actually see ourselves clearly.
The women who walk into my studio are not “models.”
They are moms. Survivors. Entrepreneurs. Partners. Women rebuilding after heartbreak. Women celebrating themselves for the first time. Women who have spent years being everything for everyone else.
And somewhere along the way, we forget we are allowed to be powerful too.
Boudoir has never just been about photos for me. It’s about watching a woman walk in a little unsure of herself and leave standing differently. Shoulders back. Eyes brighter. A little more aware of who she is and that she is allowed to take up space.
Confidence is not something you have to earn.
Worth is not something someone else gives you.
It was always yours.
So today is for the women who are healing.
The women who are starting over.
The women who are finally choosing themselves.
The women who just want to feel really fucking hot.
And the women who already know exactly who the hell they are.
Happy International Women’s Day, babes. 💕
xx, A
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Mar 8
Should I add the cloud set to my options of session add-ons and quickie session options? 🫣😏
Disclaimer: if you are 100% against AI this would not be the set for you. While it is all done initially through photography and set design, Adobe generative AI features in Lightroom and Photoshop are utilized to extend the background and clouds as needed.
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Mar 8
Not sure what to bring or wear to your boudoir session? I have you covered with a fully size inclusive client closet with hundreds of lingerie options, along with a curated boudoir outfit guide to help you feel prepared.
Whether you choose lace, leather, or nothing at all, I will help you select pieces that flatter your body and make you feel confident. My sessions are designed to give every woman a fun, feel good experience that celebrates her style and beauty.
Read my lingerie guide: https://arothboudoir.com/BoudoirLingerieGuide
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Mar 6
PSA: as I have shared, I have spent all of January and February very sick. I am still trying to catch up currently and give my body time to rest at the same time. I will be out of state the 18-24 for my best friend’s wedding and would like to be 100% caught up and have zero albums to get out at that time so when I am back in office it is just new sessions. I am closing down the remainder of my March days. If you need to get in rushed for some reason this month, you can reach out to me directly and I can see what I can do but they will not be bookable online.
I am thankful to have a full calendar, but right now your girl also needs some time to just recover and get caught up on editing after not being able to function for two months.
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Mar 4
Y’all ask for it all the time, so Wet Skin Minis are coming to @niceandnaughtystores in Saginaw on April 12th! 🥵🔥
30 minute session | 5 images | $100
Book Your Spot: https://arothboudoir.com/NNWetSkinMinis
Think steamy, magazine-worthy images straight out of a beauty editorial. The wet skin images create that irresistible glow, the glisten on your shoulders, the shine on your curves, the way light dances across damp skin. This look is perfect for anyone craving something sultry, strong, and striking.
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Mar 2
Last call, $250 model call sessions end at midnight.
Each session will include your full gallery, hair and makeup and one add-on along with the three outfits. Full image + reel permissions will be required. These will be available only on select Wednesdays unless we discuss another day, and can be scheduled anytime in 2026.
To snag one send me a message or email at hello@ariellerothboudoir.com, payment is due in full to claim your spot.
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Jan 26
Sign up to be the first to know when these are live before they hit social: https://arothboudoir.com/NNAngelMinis
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Jan 25
Color full image or b&w detail?
My “Just the Sheets” boudoir add-on is all about stripping things back to the essentials and letting simplicity take center stage.
Explore all my add-ons: https://arothboudoir.com/SessionAddOns
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Jan 24
Double like 🔥😍
www.ariellerothboudoir.com
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Jan 24
Current state: wishing it was warm enough to shoot on the beach while wrapped in a blanket preparing for an extreme cold warning on Friday.
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Jan 22
$250 Model Call Session Reminder! These sessions will ONLY be available on select Wednesdays but can be scheduled anytime in 2026 so that I can periodically get some updated image and reel content.
Each one will include your full gallery, hair and makeup and one add-on along with the three outfits. Full image + reel permissions will be required.
To snag one send me a message or email at hello@ariellerothboudoir.com, payment is due in full to claim your spot.
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Jan 16
With boudoir’s popularity rising, I know it’s tempting to book a cheaper option. But cheaper doesn’t mean safer, better, or more empowering.
I’ve spent years mastering how to pose every body type, use light to flatter you, and edit with intention.
Your session takes an average of 7 hours in-studio and another 10-15 hours of editing to ensure your album is absolutely perfect. While also offering a 400+ size-inclusive client closet, hair & makeup, and a private boudoir studio in Downtown Bay City, Michigan.
With over 300+ women photographed and formal boudoir training under my belt, I compare boudoir to newborn photography; it is a niche genre that requires skill, patience, and respect.
If you’re ready to book a boudoir session, take your time. Do your research. Choose someone who knows how to photograph you beautifully and make you feel safe, powerful, and seen.
Because you’re worth investing in.
Learn more about my experience: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirExperience
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Jan 14
🍑 + wet skin add-on = perfect tushy Tuesday combo
Explore all add-ons: https://arothboudoir.com/SessionAddOns
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Jan 13
Heels or no heels, what’s your preference?
Read my lingerie guide: https://arothboudoir.com/BoudoirLingerieGuide
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Jan 12
My $50 Valentine Minis at @niceandnaughtystores in Saginaw on February 1st are halfway full, grab your spot while there still are some at the link in my bio! 💕
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Jan 11
Whether this is your first boudoir session or your fifth, I am here to help you feel beautiful, seen, and celebrated.
Get started with my contact form: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirContact
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Jan 11
Step into confidence.
Embrace your beauty.
Book the session: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirSchedule
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Jan 10
I believe in helping women celebrating their figures, finding your confidence, and being part of you filling your want to simply feel beautiful and relish in it.
I believe in helping women celebrating their figures, finding your confidence, and being part of you filling your want to simply feel beautiful and relish in it.