As I sit down to reflect on my journey, I am filled with a sense of empowerment and liberation. The decision to undergo permanent sterilization, to have my tubes tied, was not one that I took lightly. It was a deeply personal choice, rooted in my desire for autonomy over my own body and my reproductive future.
For years (since childhood), I have known it was right for my life, but often societal expectations made me question that. Society often paints motherhood as the ultimate fulfillment for women, and the pressure to conform to this expectation can be overwhelming. But for me, motherhood was never a goal I felt compelled to pursue. The idea of pregnancy truly makes me uncomfortable in regards to my own body and I love the career and life I have built. I knew deep within myself that I did not want to have children, and I have felt a sense of peace and clarity with this step.
However, even as I embraced my decision, I encountered resistance from others who questioned my choice. I was met with judgment, disbelief, and even criticism. Some questioned whether I would regret my decision later in life, while others tried to convince me that I would change my mind.
I am so incredibly thankful for my mom and my doctor, who both provided a source of strength and encouragement. They reminded me that my worth as a woman was not tied to my ability or desire to bear children, and they celebrated my decision to take control of my reproductive future.
And so, we scheduled it. We needed to schedule a diagnostic laparoscopy and it made sense to simply do it all at the same time as the same ports were required.
After thorough discussions and evaluations, I underwent the tubal ligation. The experience itself was relatively straightforward, but the emotional journey leading up to it had it’s moments. Moments knowing I knew it was right for me, but still processing the permanence.
The day was simple. We went to the hospital, within a few hours I was in anesthesia and shortly waking up with the procedure completed.
A matter of hours have provided me with an incredible sense of freedom. I no longer have to worry about unwanted pregnancies or being forced into something that I know is not meant for my life. I am able to fully embrace my life and pursue my goals without the fear of unexpected parenthood looming over me.
I cannot speak on the healing process for this procedure solely, as I underwent other surgical procedures at the same time. The first week I was in quite a bit of pain, but manageable enough to survive on Motrin 800s. Most women I talked to prior to having the surgery said their healing was 3-5 days. Mine was longer, but again, other procedures were done and have required healing.
Choosing permanent sterilization was not a decision I made lightly, but it was the right decision for me. It was a decision rooted in self-awareness, autonomy, and empowerment. And while society may still struggle to understand and accept it, I am proud to have taken control of my reproductive future on my own terms.
To anyone out there who may be considering permanent sterilization, I urge you to trust yourself and your instincts. Your body belongs to you, and you alone have the right to make decisions about it. Surround yourself with supportive loved ones, seek out healthcare providers who respect your autonomy, and never let anyone else dictate the course of your life.
Luxury and spoiling yourself doesn’t have to mean out of reach. All packages are eligible for a custom payment plan that works with your budget and timeline.
Want to knock it out in one go? Pay in full when booking and you’re officially all set, no reminders, no to-do list stress. As a thank-you for being ahead of the game, you’ll also receive one add-on free for free.
Prefer to break it up? Pay 50% at booking and the remaining 50% is due 7 days before your session. It’s simple, straightforward, and keeps everything on track.
Or secure your date with a $100 retainer, then split the balance into 3, 5, or 7 equal payments. All plans must be paid in full at least 7 days before your shoot.
Explore packages and payment plans here: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirInvestment
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Sep 6
Packing for your boudoir session should feel exciting, not stressful. This ultimate guide gives you everything you need to bring, from lingerie to accessories, shoes, and personal touches, so you can walk into your boudoir experience fully prepared and completely confident, #LinkInBio
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Sep 5
Yes, you’ll look hot. But the real glow-up? How you feel afterward.
Explore my packages and payment plans: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirInvestment
💋: https://arothboudoir.com/MissC4
💄: Arielle Roth Makeup Artistry
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Sep 4
My current obsession? Playing with colors during your shoot for iridescent effects.
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Sep 1
We spend so much of our lives looking in mirrors and only seeing what we think is wrong. But what happens when you step in front of a camera that shows you the truth: your softness, your power, your radiance?
That is where the psychology of boudoir comes alive. It is not about being perfect, it is about being present. And when you see yourself through my lens, the stories you have told yourself start to shift.
This blog is for everyone who has ever doubted if they are photogenic enough or ready yet. Spoiler: you already are. #LinkInBio 💕
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Aug 30
The Wet Skin add-on is for the client who wants to go all in: bold, edgy, and dripping with confidence. We use water and light in a dark room to create a glossy, radiant look that’s both cinematic and intimate.
Get one add-on for free when you pay for your session in full when booking, explore all of them here: https://arothboudoir.com/SessionAddOns
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Aug 30
Ready when you are, babe.
You deserve this.
https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirSchedule
💄: Arielle Roth Makeup Artistry
💻: https://arothboudoir.com/MissP
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Aug 29
The confidence glow doesn’t just happen in the studio — you can start building it days before. Here are 3 ways to hype yourself up before your boudoir shoot:
Make a playlist of songs that make you feel hot, confident, and unstoppable.
Talk to yourself in the mirror like you’re your own hype woman.
Have a lingerie try-on party at home — even if it’s just you.
Read about what happens from start to finish on the day of your session: https://arothboudoir.com/WhatToExpect
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Aug 28
Male boudoir? Yeah, I do that too.
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Aug 27
Halloween Mini Sessions, #LinkInBio
September 28th & 29th
Hair & Makeup INCLUDED
One Outfit (must bring your own…and a towel)
$300, $100 non-refundable to reserve your spot
Remaining $200 due 7 days prior to session
30 minutes of shooting
10 digital images, print release
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Aug 27
FAQ: Do you retouch images?
The short answer: yes, I retouch your images.
The long answer: I do it in a way that keeps you looking like the real, gorgeous you.
Here’s what that means:
– Temporary blemishes? Gone.
– Stray hairs? Removed.
– Uneven lighting? Adjusted.
– Skin tone? Smoothed, naturally.
What I don’t do: change your body, erase your features, or make you look like a completely different person.
Boudoir is about loving yourself as you are, my editing simply polishes the image so your confidence shines through.
Read More FAQs: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoir_FAQs
💻: https://arothboudoir.com/MissC2
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Aug 26
My VIPs get the goods first — specials, dates, all of it. You in?
📱: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirVIP
💌: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirNewsletter
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Aug 25
There’s a reason we’re all obsessed with wet skin add-on sessions. 🥵
https://arothboudoir.com/SessionAddOns
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Aug 24
Boudoir doesn’t have to mean lace or leather. The “Just the Sheets” add-on gives you a stripped-down, natural feel that’s still undeniably sexy. Think soft textures, cozy comfort, and a spotlight on your natural beauty.
Explore all add-ons: https://arothboudoir.com/SessionAddOns
💄: Arielle Roth Makeup Artistry
💻: https://arothboudoir.com/MissC
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Aug 23
Newest add-on coming in hot, because simple can be sensual and sexy too. You will now be able to add on portraits done on seamless backdrops in the color of your choice (black, beige, white, dark brown, olive green, emerald green, mustard yellow, navy blue, baby blue, burgundy, magenta, and baby pink).
www.ariellerothboudoir.com
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Aug 23
Boudoir is one of my favorite forms of self-care; a whole day devoted to you, your confidence, your glow. But it’s not the only way to fill your cup. Here are 5 other ways you can show up for yourself this month:
1. The solo date. Take yourself out, dress up (or don’t), and soak up your own company.
2. The unapologetic “no.” Give yourself permission to say no without guilt.
3. The body love ritual. Lotion after a shower, a few extra minutes in the mirror, or wearing lingerie just for you.
4. The tech detox. Even just a couple of hours can reset your energy.
5. The little luxury. Fresh flowers, a fancy dessert, or a new candle — because you can.
Which one are you going to try first?
💻: https://arothboudoir.com/JaneDoe
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Aug 22
REMINDER: 50% OFF BOUDOIR PACKAGES ON AUGUST 27th!
I have one slot in August next week that I’d love to fill! And am offering discounted packages for that specific date, August 27th.
The Signature Package: $325
Glow Up: $475
Luxe AF: $1025
See what’s included with each: https://bit.ly/ARBoudoirInvestment
Feel free to DM me to claim 🥳
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Aug 21
Whether it’s the full goddess moment or the close-up of a killer detail, I’m here for both. Which ones your favorite?
💄: Arielle Roth Makeup Artistry
💻: https://arothboudoir.com/MissA
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Aug 21
DYK that I offer two options for shooting style of your session (with a third on the way 😉) for no cost difference?
Classic: crisp, clean, and timeless. This style captures everything exactly as it unfolds, perfect if you love a bold yet authentic look.
Ethereal: dreamy, soft, and cinematic. This style adds a touch of magic with glowing light and hazy edges. Perfect if you want your gallery to feel like art and memory blended together.
What one would you choose for your session?
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Aug 19
There’s no size requirement for self-love. Boudoir is for the size 2, the size 22, and everyone in between. My client closet, my posing, my lighting - it’s all designed to flatter you, no matter your body type. The only thing you need to bring is your gorgeous self.
💄: @arothmakeup
💻: https://arothboudoir.com/MissK
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Aug 18
I believe in helping women celebrating their figures, finding your confidence, and being part of you filling your want to simply feel beautiful and relish in it.
I believe in helping women celebrating their figures, finding your confidence, and being part of you filling your want to simply feel beautiful and relish in it.